As I already alluded to, as a shy guy, the primary source of your shyness is your faulty thinking, not the way you are as a person.
Whatever your condition may be, trust me, I know several guys in the exact same condition who are very confident socially and have no problems making friends or enticing members of the opposite sex.
These guys feel anxious in social situations and they feel particularly anxious around girls, especially the ones they find attractive.
They have trouble engaging in conversations and keeping them going, they hide their sexual side, they are often invisible to the girls they like, and if they’re not they often get friend-zoned by these girls.
If a guy doesn’t see himself as successful and as having a good status, if he thinks other guys are better than him, he will tend to feel inferior and insecure.
Quiet but strong, quiet but complicated, quiet but passionate - all traits of powerful women (not women who are afraid to speak their minds).
Most statistics state than shyness is somewhat more common for girls than for guys.